28.5.13

Haruki Murakami's 1Q84

1Q84 must be the most surreal book I have ever read. Yet even with it's creepy and confusing plots I managed to finish this book and I proudly say that this is a memorable book for me. 

This is the first (yes, I'm hoping to read more of his works but not anytime soon) Murakami book I read. I am not a bookworm so I'm not really familiar with his name (what a shame!) until two of my friends told me that their favorite book is from Murakami. Although I forgot the titles of the book they've read, the name lingered in my mind whenever I visit a bookstore. It intrigued me why they like Murakami's books so much. So one fine day, I decided to buy 1Q84. 



Bought the book early December of 2012 but it was only in January of 2013 that I started reading it. I should say it has a mature content and I was uncomfortable reading it at first. I was surprised, really. It wasn't the kind of books I read. It was too depressing for me at that time so I decided to stop reading after the end of book 1 and put it on my on-hold list first.

Last week I felt like I was ready to read it again.

I finished book 2 and 3 after a week. I really could not put it down after the start of book 2. I was too excited as to what will happen to the two main characters, Tengo and Aomame. I guess I was just in the right mood to read it that I finished reading it that fast.

There were a lot of characters in the book but Murakami made sure that each character was described meticulously. More importantly, he made sure each character has a significance role in the story. The story was confusingly good.

For the nth time, I'm not good at book reviews but I just want to tell you that I really enjoyed reading 1Q84. And there are two things that will always make me remember the book: 1. Moon 2. Lightning.

Here are some of my favorite lines / quotes from the book: 

But inside, where she could not be seen, she was confused. 

It's not me but the world that's deranged. 

There's nothing wrong with not looking like something. It just means you don't fit the stereotype yet.

... ordinary kind of happiness - marry someone you love, happy ending.

Every art and every inquiry, and similarly every action and pursuit, is thought to aim at some good; and for this reason the good has tightly been declared to be that at which all things aim. (The conclusion of things is the good. The good is, in other words, the conclusion at which all things arrive. Let's leave doubt for tomorrow. That is the point)

... reading novels was just another form of escape. As soon as he closed their pages he had to come back to the real world.

If you can love someone with your whole heart, even one person, then there's salvation in life. Even if you can't get together with that person. 

It's the same with menus and men and just about anything else: we think we're choosing things for ourselves, but in fact we may not be choosing anything. It could be that everything's being decided in advance and we pretend we're making choices. Free will may be an illusion. I often think that.
... it seems to me that this world has a serious shortage of both logic and kindness.

You throw a stone into a deep pond. Splash. The sound is big, and it reverberates throughout the surrounding area. What comes out of the pond after that? All we can do is stare at the pond, holding our breath.

But decent motives don't always produce decent results.

Knowledge is a precious social asset.

If you can't understand it without explanation, you can't understand it with explanation.

Good and evil are not fixed, stable entities but are continually trading places.

It is not that the meaning cannot be explained. But there are certain meanings that are lost forever the moment they are explained in words.

... most people in the world don't really use their brains to think. And people who don't think are the ones who don't listen to others.

To rephrase Tolstoy's famous line, all happiness is alike, but each pain is painful in it's own way. 


9.5.13

Elle's 7th!

The family went to Cavite last weekend to celebrate the birthday of my cousin, Elle, @ Kalipayan Resort in Dasmariñas. 

Mama, sister, niece and I took a 2 hour bus ride from Lawton to Dasmariñas. I've been at Kalipayan many times already, since 2006 or 2007 I think, but it's my first time to spend overnight at their hotel. 

That's my 58 yr old mama. :p

Night Swimming

The room we got had 3 twin beds and was spacious enough for all 12 of us but it's only good for 6 person so we have to pay for an additional fee. 

Spotted double rainbows the next day.


As always, we enjoyed our stay in Kalipayan Resort.

Kalipayan Resort doesn't have an official website so you can just google image if you want to see more pictures of their amenities. :)

1.5.13

Happy 30th, Robylove!

Roby is one of my closest friends in my highschool set of friends. We've known each other since elementary days, that's more than half our age. When we were in our sophomore year, we belong to a big barkada (20 peeps) so we were not THAT close then. When we were in college, although we went to the same university, we didn't really had the time to bond. It was after college that we started to really get to know each other... traveling together. 

Together with our friend, Peachy, we went to Mati, Cebu and Bohol. Just last year we also went to Hongkong and Macau. Because of those trips we became close. I'm a very secretive person and I don't share much about my real thoughts and feelings but I was able to share to her things about my past, views in life, heart aches & even my non sense blabs about life and love. It's a big deal to me because it's such a relief that there's someone out there who really knows me inside and out and doesn't judge me at all.

I am very thankful to God for giving me a friend like Roby. Recently, she helped me realize of what I really want to do in life, which is teaching kids. More of it on my future posts.

She'll be taking up her PhD this coming June. I am happy that she's happy with where she is now. Not everyone gets to enjoy the job they're doing. So my wish for her on her 30th bday is that she will be able to finish her PhD with flying colors.

She's also experienced a major heartbreak last year. I mean MAJOR! I am just so proud of her that she was able to handle it very bravely. And so, I also wish and pray that someday, she'll meet and marry a man she deserves. I believe, she'll meet her prince charming in God's time.

Thank you again, my dear friend and happy birthday!!!

Love you, Robylove!!! xx